Men's Sexual Nature

No, I am not an expert on this because I am not a man but I am married to one, I have two sons, and a father.  I have read books about it, Ken and I talk openly about it, and Dennis Prager talks about it a lot on his male/female hour.  He admitted that a man's sexual nature is a heavy burden for men that want to live good lives.

Understanding a man's sexual nature is important to understanding your man.  Dennis Prager always says that if you married a man who is faithful to you, give him a lot of hugs, kisses, and thank him.   It is most men's nature to want to have sex with a lot of different women.  If they are godly men, however, or even men of integrity, they know that is not what they are suppose to do.

I have many friends who are upset because their man will glance at a beautiful woman walk by, not lust but glance.  That is in their nature to do that.  Dennis was saying that just because a man may get somewhat excited by a beautiful woman for ten seconds, he forgets about her ten seconds later.  He married his wife, because he loves her and wants to be with her.

So just because your husband likes a lot of sex with you and enjoys glancing at beautiful women, doesn't make him a sex pervert.  God created him that way.  That doesn't mean he doesn't have to battle his sexual nature, learn to control it and not allow it to control him, but if we are married, we need to understand this battle and be sympathetic with them and not condemning.

We have our own battles.  Most women battle their emotions.  We must learn to control our emotions and not let them control us.  Many of us battle with wanting to control and change our husbands.  Don't allow this to happen.

So love on the husband the good Lord gave you.  Satisfy his sexual need so he doesn't need to go roaming elsewhere.  Let him be open with you about his sexual nature.  It will cause him to feel closer to you when he feels you really know him and understand him.  In this way, you can help him in this battle to be holy.

Finally, be all of one mind, having compassion one with another, love as brethren, be tender hearted, be courteous. 

I Peter 3:8

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